Help Puppy With Separation Anxiety
by Wendy Kozinska
My mum lives in an flat/apartment over one floor. She spends a lot of time in the kitchen as it is large and there is a television and radio in it, so the puppy is used to spending time in there with my mum- just not good at being left alone! The puppy howls, whines, and crys very loudly! My mum just feels like she cannot get to be on her own at all without the puppy wanting to be round her ankles, on her lap, with her full stop. Do you have any advice for her please? Also, she has had the really bad sinus cold since getting the puppy and we all fear she could be allergic (we really don't think so, but this is adding to my mum's pressure). She loves the puppy dearly and hates feeling frustrated - my dad died 4 months ago, so she is lonely and needs the company - she wants to make it work with the puppy but at the moment feels that the puppy is controlling her rather than the other way around. Sorry for such a lengthy question!! Much appreciated. Reply from Pauline (Web Owner) Hello Wendy, it sounds like you and your mum are having a rough time - I'm very sorry for your loss of your father. As for your puppy's separation anxiety, well, that can be dealt with in a structured manner. You may not be able to completely remove your puppy's anxiety about being left on his own, but you should be able to go some way towards it. My first recommendation would be for your puppy to be crated - don't worry, it's not cruel. What a crate will do for your puppy is it will give him a 'place of his own' where he feels safe and, when he's inside his crate, your mum won't need to worry about him snapping around her heels. Place the crate in the kitchen where he can see your mum. Learn how to crate train your puppy here. I would recommend you begin to leave your puppy in the kitchen, on his own, for a minute or two. Nip out into another room and then return. Gradually increase the length of time you stay out of the room. Don't make a fuss when you leave or when you return. Practice leaving the room and returning frequently and it will teach your puppy that you (or your mum) always return, so he's not really anything to worry about. Rather than repeat myself, you can find lots of helpful information and advice on your dogs separation anxiety here. Work through each stage carefully and slowly and you will get there. I also recommend that you try to wean your puppy away from sleeping in your mum's bedroom if possible. You can read more about sleeping arrangements for dogs in my article Let Sleeping Dogs Lie - But Not On Your Bed! Good luck and let us know how you get on! Cocker Spaniel Questions And Answers Return to About Cocker Spaniels - Homepage
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